Over the past year of being a grad student at LIOS, I've been unknowingly collecting ayings that have been uttered from the mouth of one of my faculty, Dr. Timothy Weber. Dr. Tim's wisdom is shared with us freely and openly. He studied under Carl Whitaker in the 1980s, and his style reflects Whitaker's influence. I've been extracting from my notes the pearls of wisdom that can only be called "Tim-isms".

1. Who has to die in order for you to live?
   
2. Conversation is sex of the soul
   
3. Get jazzed by yourself.
   
4. Widen the lens
   
5. Technique is what gets used until the therapist shows up.
   
6. Playful seriousness at work.
   
7. Homogeneity is what keeps the sadness from a broken heart at bay.
   
8. Get out of the counselor narrative and get into yourself. Show up as a human being.
   
9. Courage and confidence is at the heart of differentiation.
   
10. Be a seeker: hear other people into speech.
    
11. Lose your mind and come to your senses.
    
12. Is your hypothesis open to revision based upon experience?
    
13. A leader need not do the work of solution. All you need to do is illuminate it.
    

More Tim-isms have been posted in the entry below this one. Eventually I'll post all of the Tim-isms I find in my notes!